Coffee with the Universe with Lore Goldstein: Be Calm, Collected, and Confident Every Day: Stop "Should-ing" Yourself. Make decisions that are truly YOURS for greater joy and fulfillment.

It often takes a personal crisis such as divorce, loss of of a loved one, or health scare to start to question what you are doing and why. How are you making your choices? By what criteria? Are you even making daily decisions that are truly YOURS? Or are you living by someone else's plan and expectations? It's easy to fall into the trap of “should's”. Society is always pressuring you to look, act, and be a certain way to gain approval. But there are consequences to living life by “should's”, one of those being you wake up one day and have no idea who you are anymore. In this Coffee with the Universe episode I talk about how deceiving the “should's” can be, how to be more aware of when it's happening, and how to shift to making decisions based on who you truly are instead. Even if others won't understand and might judge you.

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